During my life as a geek, true and proud, I have found one prevalent theme that is the galactic overlord to my otherwise delicate psyche. It is the theme of acceptance. This may give you pause as geeks are largely the unaccepted of society. Our interests are too weird, our music too dark and Dungeons & Dragony (yes, an adjective now), and our style, well not Michael Kors. However, it is our lack of acceptance as a cohort of our non-acceptance in society that makes us damn acceptable. I am not trying to wax algebraic here, so bear with me.
I remember being at a party in college of normal people. They were keg standing, playing Nirvana, and talking about some TV show that I now can’t recall. One baked dude suddenly yelled, “Hey, do you remember Star Wars?” The party went silent as if someone had lit a nerd bomb. He shifted awkwardly, a preppy poser in a cloud of eau de Kurt Cobain. I was in the corner, a planted wallflower trying to do my calculus homework in my head so that I could write it down later. I had to save him. I gulped, stepped forward, and raised my hand, and uttered, “I love Star Wars. I just watched it last weekend.” Everyone started talking again as if on cue, and a group of us casually dissected the trilogy in harmony amongst the cool kids, untouched and not taunted.
Did any of you self-proclaimed geeks ever blatantly disregard or taunt another geek even though the majority of society at some point did? (If you answered yes, then I will set phasers to stun your dumb arse, and we will talk later about how wrong this is.) I’m going to theorize that most of you answered no because there is a Brotherhood of Geek (BoG). The BoG knows better than to smack around its own. The BoG is not perfect by any stretch. Sometimes we debate the annoyingly fine details of our passion like the math of whether there can be 12, 13 or X many Doctors. Consecutive integers are so exasperating! Or we put Gene Roddenberry and George Lucas in a cage match in our dreams. Don’t even get all up in your crazy and start JJ Abrams smack talking. Be calm. Be still, oh member of the BoG. We have assimilated in our united, and sometimes divided, passions. And, in the BoG, you can be “as you were” 24/7. But, I am going to send you on a quest to do something greater than Pi like I did for baked preppy feigning grunge dude at the party long ago.
As the BoG we have the opportunity, especially now as geeks have more street cred, to share the acceptance and protection we have practiced with other members of society that stand alone. I’m not saying that you have to go and become besties with a Cylon. I’m just saying, we make the world better with our acceptance of each other and our rejection of the norm. I want the BoG to be synonymous with acceptance in society. It’s what we craved and found in each other, and now what we have the superpower to give others. So boldly go…accept.